To my FRIENDS…….

Slowly the day came, and woshhhh I was married, it didn’t sink in then and don’t suppose its sunk in completely abhi tak. For years this was a source of much pain in my house- raised voices, silences, the arguments and finally the sighs tht only meant agreeing to disagree for a little while until we were ready to talk abt it again. And then suddenly I met Vishal (my husband) and something felt right and all those fears, apprehensions of marriage melted away (at least for a while). And so here I stand married for over a month now and enjoying my life.

Besides the elation of meeting the one in ur life, one is saddened by the thought of leaving ones family and joining another, and in my case even harder as I was leaving town. Those times when I d sit alone in the dark and worry abt wht future held for me, the pain for moving away from ur parents, the realization tht u no longer were the child in the house and tht it was time to grow up and take responsibility, tht there wud be no acceptance and forgiveness like the kind shown by ur parents……….

All through all this something that gladdened my heart was the reaction I got from people I m close to. Call me a sadist, but when friends of mine were upset that I was getting married and going away besides feeling the loss I also realizes that maybe I had meant something to some people. So thnk u guys for making me feel this special and thnk u soooo much for being there in so many different ways, I KNOW I cudnt have done without u…….

As for the future- I wish I don’t lose touch with u all but I m coming to realize that things do really change and hope u hang around till I strike a balance and be back.

I dunno how many times I ve said this so some people bt I wanna say it again today- I CONSIDER MYSELF LUCKY TO HAVE HAD U GUYS IN MY LIFE, U VE ENRICHED IT IN A WAY THT MAYBE U GUYS WILL NEVER KNW.

So I wanna raise a toast to the “greatest people I ve known and the best of frnds tht one cud ever dream of having”