Friday, September 26, 2008

love

love!! wht is it?? i dont knw hw many times i ve been asked if i beleive in love and i knw my answer has on most occassions has been "not really" or "no". but i havng cn a frnd of mine with her undying, unquestioned love for on person i thought maybe such a thing exisits.....but then again i wonder...........
is it coz ppl r scared of lonliness? is it really there coz one wants it to be tht way so therefore if they can fal out of love if they think otherwise??
i am tired and i guess not making much sense so ta ta...

5 comments:

Unknown said...

U really dont make much sense in the last line....But the thing exists, maybe coz of loneliness, that u crave for someone near & dear. However, do feel that after a particular point of time in life, u need a companionship..maybe the feeling oflove comes after a certain period in a relationship, but if it comes, i think its one of the most precious feelings one can garner.

Incognita said...

okay!!!...i think it has sumthing to do wid hormones. if u r actually talking abt love between two partners and n not betn u n ur parents.c no1 can deny soon after our puberty we all fell for some1 may b opp sex or same sex doesnt matter any more. rt?u can laugh n say dats not luv but infatuation, ha i will say, the height n obsession it gives,its unconditional. nothing more can give u dat height in ur entire life!
so ppl strive to get that phase again in their lives.
next time u fall in love its either mere attraction or adjustment that most of us actually agree to do, coz either we dnt want to be alone or wanna b happening, it depends!!!
It exists, it definitely does, if ppl stop being selfish n frickle, we will witness this presently rare occassion all around us. Actually, choice er options eto tai bere geche but we cant help it.u study in school u get some1, then in college u again sum 2-3 ppl u r attracted, then in job or anywhere……but do we really realize the rationale behind it??
If we check the ratio gals r less than the boyz. So, if a gal thinks she is really making boyz go gaga over her then ACTUALLY,stats plays the key role.
Looking at these common pictures all around us, dnt judge LOVE, its as eternal as eternity……..it makes u complete, don love coz u wanna love, love coz its comes spontaneously to u. dnt think abt the pros n cons, u think abt consequences and results when u have to sign a deal or get married. When we say “I took this decision”…do we really take it??NO, innumerable circumstances forces us to tk the very decision, so its not ours . For every action of ours we calculate.n if u apply the same theory, then u cannot get the real picture of love. if radha wud have calculated so much…then her love for Krishna could never have reached the pedestal were we bow our heads. In common sense it was purely extra marital, rt??? No, for them it was a compulsion, a power before which, they can leave the whole world. It was beyond calculation. Its strange, when ppl find anything beyond calculation they either think its weird or pray before it. LOVE is sumthing beyond calculation, just jump in this never ending ocean,it’s a beautiful feeling take my words if u r true n selfless u will never get drowned.

Unknown said...

Cant help but write a quote I read somewhere "U dont live to be in love, but love to live". Go between the words carefully to understand the meaning.

manoj said...

Love....aha...the most mysterious of all words!!

No amount of words can describe it. But it IS there....all around us, in various forms and manifestations.

The earth has been going around the sun for millions of years....it is the love which compels it to do so.

It is the love of the river for ocean which compells it to travel thousands of miles non stop...

I am sure the sun also loves us, otherwise why wud it nurture this magnificent earth and all its creatures not expecting anything from us.

I feel their is some Divine love which has set everything in motion...

And yes....we humans have also been endowed with this magical quality. How else do u think human race has survived for thousand of years.

ask a teenager who has just felt the first twinge of love. U might prefer to call it infatuation, but for him/her it is very real.

And then there is love of a parent for the child, specially a mother's, totally selfless and unconditional. This is the nearest one can get to true love.

None of us can survive without love. We need it all the time. Just think a bit deeply then u will realise.

These r just a few random examples of endless list.

And yes...I do realise that these r ramblings of a romantic fool.

To use a cliche....Lets RISE in love and not FALL in love. :)

manoj said...

Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking.
It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.

From Bible.